If I remarry, after being married 10 years, which spouse receives Social Security benefits?
A former spouse can receive benefits under the same circumstances as a current spouse or widow/widower if the marriage lasted 10 years or more. Benefits paid to a surviving divorced spouse will not affect the benefit rates for other beneficiaries. Please note that in general, a person applying as a widow/widower cannot receive benefits if they remarry before the age of 60 (50 if disabled) unless the latter marriage ends, whether by death, divorce, or annulment. However, remarriage after age 60 (50 if disabled) will not prevent payments on a former spouse's record.
For more information, you may call the Social Security Administration’s toll-free number, see ask for the Social Security Administration’s publication "Survivors Benefits " Publication No. 05-10084. Social Security representatives there will be glad to help you.